This book is a gentle, pleasant read. While it is full of good reminders to be caring, accepting, willing to serve, hospitable, and encouraging, I feel the gem of the book is actually found in the introduction. Janice Peterson explains early in the book why she chooses the words 'spiritual friendship' rather than mentor. This is noteworthy, lasting truth that has been observed in my life and in the lives of those around me over the years. Let me whet your appetite with this wise quote: The reason I think it's important to distinguish spiritual friendship from the idea we know as "mentoring" is that spiritual friendship isn't any kind of hierarchy- it's not one person as the "expert" and the other as the "learner." Spiritual friendship is learning to see the worth God has placed in each person and appreciating the gifts individuals have to offer. It's being willing to share when you need to and learn when you need to. I'ts caring for the well-being of the other person, and letting her care for you as well. Giving and receiving. Walking sided by side through different seasons of life. We are all richer for understanding not only what we have to offer the people in our lives, but understanding what they have to offer as well. |
***In the interest of full disclosure: I received a complimentary copy of this book from Tyndale House Publishers for the purpose of reviewing. I was not required to give a positive review, my opinions expressed are genuine.