No, they probably can't.
I'm one of those.
A perpetual party pooper.
I don't know if it stems partially from my literal interpretation and my critical eye for inconsistency or if it is just a trait God intended me to have, but I hold people accountable. More than they want me to. More than I want to sometimes.
There are definitely times that it would be easier and more comfortable for me to turn a blind eye (or deaf ear) to some morally questionable content that protrudes from fellow believer's mouths (or facebook feeds).
Since I am very aware that many people have us accountability partner / party poopers pinned as legalistic, judgmental fuddy-duddy's who can't take a joke, let me just tell you one small story about my tendencies to hold people accountable that warmed my heart and may hopefully let you see things from the other side of the coin for a moment. (BTW: us party poopers have a huge heart for others and that's why it concerns us so deeply to see people compromising their integrity)